Griffin

Via Sara Jane

There is so much in your life that is not serving any purpose for you.

It is time to take stock, to take one thing, activity and person at a time – do they still serve a purpose in your life?

Remember that purpose has to be reciprocal, you may appear to serve a purpose for them but do they serve a purpose for you and visa versa.

The action of letting go should always be with Love & Gratitude and released to the Light with Love.

If there is something or someone that appears to be pulling away from you ~ let them go.

The action of letting go gives that thing or person the choice to stay or go.

It may be that the staying has a different format or feel but it will be what is right for you both until it isn’t.

While you are weighted down by the past, you cannot take flight and step into your future.

The only baggage you carry should be your Love for Self and the Wisdom gained from all your experiences.

Yes, there will be people places and things that follow you into your future, you only leave behind what no longer serves you.

When was the last time you did something on the spur of the moment?

When was the last time you said Yes to something you wanted to do and had to make the time for it? After all the housework and washing can wait for another day.

Learn to be more impulsive and flexible but only say Yes when you mean Yes.

When was the last time you stood up for what you wanted and said No because it really didn’t feel right for you?

Selfish isn’t saying No

Selfish is hearing No and trying to make the other person feel guilty for being true to them self.

Know that getting a No can be a much greater gift than hearing a Yes; especially if the Yes is not meant and then you are let down.

So much kinder to say No, then both parties have the time to make alternative arrangements.

We watch the beautiful Beings you humans are, so many of you don’t wish to “hurt” others or to “let them down” and in the process you “hurt! Yourself and “let yourself down” because you think you are being “kind”.

You have a term “Tough Love”

Maybe it is “tough” because of your willingness to help others and your unwillingness to “hurt” or “let them down”.

“Tough Love” can be the kindest, most loving gift you can give someone.

Yes, we appreciate you may “feel” horrible and mean but when you watch that person grow or hear about the amazing changes that happen (we know it is not mostly overnight, there will likely be struggles to get them there), you will know you did the right thing.

In so many cases in years to come, those people will come to you and Thank You for what you did.

So let go of judgement, shed your unneeded baggage, spread your wings and let yourself fly.

We are all here with you

Your Loving Friend

Griffin

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