Your Heart is so full of Love but that love doesn’t mean that you give everyone else their own way, that it is to the detriment of you.

Because the most important person for you to love is yourself

Learn to say YES to yourself, yes to all those things that feel right for you.

What is right for you is right for everybody else around you.

And if somebody says No to you, they are saying Yes to them self and that is also right for you.

Selfish isn’t saying Yes to yourself and No to another.

Selfish is when you expect others to say Yes to you and No to them self.

So let go of other people’s judgement of you – You are Special

There is no one more or less special than you – everyone is equal in the special stakes.

And you have gifts, those things that you are really good at and enjoy.

Some of you may be singers, some of you may be painters, some of you may be doctors or nurses or  carers or architects, some of you may be wonderful Mothers or Fathers; some of you are here as guides and guardians and parents, Mums & Dads, that is part of the gift you bring when you have children.

You are here to support them, care for them, guide and guard them, they are part of the gifts that you bring and they bring their own gifts.

Supporting them to be true to them self, let go, every one of you, of the things that you struggle with, you are not here to be good at everything.

Work to your strengths and let others work to theirs.

There is an order to life; life is like a mechanism, a mechanism made up of many cogs and wheels, each one of them has their specific role and if they start trying to do somebody else’s role the mechanism stalls.

So follow your Heart, follow what you enjoy and what you are good at and don’t worry about the things you aren’t good at, the things that you don’t enjoy doing.

Yes you still have everyday living to do, if you have a home you have it to run, if you have children you are there for them but you still have your special gifts – Honour Them, share them with the World.

And if you don’t know what that gift is as yet – “what do you enjoy?” “what gives you pleasure?”, “what aspects of your work fulfil you?”

And if there is no aspect of your life that fulfils you, then it is up to you to change your life and to find what fulfils you.

Explore, experience, test things out, you cannot get anything wrong, nothing wrong, because every experience helps you to grow into the amazing Being that you are, that is awaiting to be awakened.

I know there are many out there that are “but I’m this age, I’m that age, I haven’t got there yet. For some of you it will come a lot later than others but remember everything that you do, every role you have, every job you do, every experience you go through, is getting you to that point, is giving you the tools to share your true gift.

And it will make itself known to you; it may come like a thunderbolt out of the blue, it may creep up on you slowly.

And if there’s something you are interested in go and learn about it, never stop learning.

Remember you are special; you are a gift to the world, a gift that will be unwrapped in its own divine timing.

Copyright © Sara Jane 2016