Via Sara Jane

Yes, this is your life to live as feels right for you.

However, it is also important that you take into consideration how your actions affect others.

Be honest and be open to say Yes, when you mean yes, say No, when you mean No.

When I say consider how your actions may affect others, it doesn’t mean that you have to do what others say because they won’t like if you don’t.

What I mean when I say, “how your actions affect others”, is if they harm them in any way.

If somebody is upset with you saying no, that is their problem but if your actions bring somebody into harm or left standing unnecessarily and there are other situations, I am sure you will be aware of, that could be detrimental to them.

Your no may make it that they have to do it themselves or ask somebody else, providing you are honest in plenty of time, is totally right for them and you.

So, think about what is right for you, yes have some consideration on the affects it might have on others but always do what is right for you, providing it does not adversely affect others literally, rather than their feelings of being let down.

You don’t have to do what others ask of you, if it doesn’t resonate, fit with your timings or actually feels wrong for you.

What is important is your honesty, say no when you mean no, don’t say yes because it is easier then let them down at the last minute. That is inconsiderate and every one of you are so much better than that.

I think you have a song “let your yes be yes and your no be no”.

Think about what is right for you and don’t let it be detrimental, truly detrimental, to others, in the way that you do it.

This is your life, they have their own lives, your paths will cross, maybe temporarily, maybe more long term, maybe for a lifetime.

Treat each other with the respect you expect to be treated with.

Namaste Sweet Soul

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