Black and white, is life really so clear cut?

There are so many areas that are grey in between the two and then what about all the colours in life, so many colours, just look into nature.

Is black “bad” is white “good”? Does that not depend on your perspective of the things that are going on in your life and that have gone on in your life? That are going on in somebody else’s life and they have experienced?

What can be white for one, can be very grey or black for another and vice versa.

So black is both good and bad and in between, white is both god and bad and in between.

So why do you put colours on to those feelings, those senses of what feels good in your life and what feels less good in your life?

However, how many of those “not so good” things, in your thinking at the time, have turned out to be amazingly positive in your life, have bought about things in your life, in a way you could never have perceived, that you could never have imagined, that have changed your life beyond anything you could have dreamed and in so many cases for the better?

So what has been perceived as being “bad”, could actually be one of the best things that ever happened to you.

The next time something “bad” appears to happen to you, open your mind, open your life, to what that experience could be bringing to you, for you and try to let go of what is “good” and what is “bad”, rather than what is helpful and supports you to grow and if necessary change direction in your life because sometimes, as the saying goes “perhaps when everything is falling apart, everything is actually falling together”.

 There is also a little, I suppose you might call it a fable.

A Robin is flying across and very cold area of your planet and it becomes so cold, it can’t fly anymore and drops to the ground, into the snow.

A bear comes along, and yes, it does the unthinkable on it. But the Robin slowly warms up and is able to start moving its wings, to start freeing itself.

And a fox comes along and offers to help it out and then proceeds to eat it.

Who was the Robin’s friend?

Judgement can be a very dangerous thing, you can think that somebody is harming you, when in fact what they are doing is helping you.

And those who offer to hep you, are they just helping themselves.

Stay out of judgement, be open to whatever an experience brings you.

You do not appreciate it when others judge you, so do not judge others and as for situations and circumstances, open yourselves to the outcome, not necessarily the experience itself.

Take care, be safe, Stay well, Be open to the gifts life brings you, not necessarily wrapped in pretty packages.

Namaste Sweet Souls

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