Via Sara Jane

Are you sitting on the fence, is there a decision you’re struggling to make?

A decision you are finding difficult because of maybe what you would choose and knowing what others would choose or you think you know what other’s would choose.

You should be true to yourself, providing it isn’t to the detriment of others and then it is about finding a compromise.

Talk to the others, ask questions, potentially even ask support.

If you don’t talk to each other and genuinely find out what is going on within other’s lives, how are you ever going to know?

Yes, you can guess but you aren’t them and they aren’t you. So talking is essential.

Sharing your thoughts and asking others to share theirs and providing the compromise works for both and isn’t to the detriment of any, then maybe compromise is the order of the day.

If the other isn’t prepared to talk, to share, to be open and honest, you can but choose what is right for you but you must also be willing to share, to be open, to be honest.

Choose, don’t sit on the fence, make a choice because if you don’t the choice will be made for you and it may not be the right choice for you.

Never be afraid to ask a question, for support, for help. It may not always come in the way you would choose, that you expect.

Each and everyone of you has to do what feels right for you and sometimes as you have to give a No,  others also have to give a No.

Remember, only say Yes, to those things that feel right for you because when you say Yes, to others, you are potentially saying No, to yourself.

This is your life to live, not others to live; you should live it for yourself and not live other’s lives for them.

Each and everyone of you have your own path to follow and your Yes, to yourself supports you to do that.

Take care, be safe, Stay well, Be true to yourself

Namaste Sweet Soul

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