No one is necessarily difficult or peculiar, it is just how their life experiences and yes, their wiring has made them.

Some of those things it may be possible for them to adjust, other things it may not.

It doesn’t make them any less than normal in their own life, it doesn’t make you anything less than normal, in your own life.

But you are uniquely normal rather than following the crowd normal.

Be true to yourself, get to know who you are. Why you do things the way you do them.

Explore your experiences from the past ad how they have made you feel, I am not asking you to go back and live there, I am asking you to pen up to the ways those things have affected you, have shaped you, have made you and if you don’t like that, you can change it, you do not have to stay a people pleaser, angry, argumentative.

You can choose to be, who feels right for you.

We are not saying it’s going to be easy; they are learned behaviours from things potentially many years in your past but you can do it.

For some of you, you may be able to do it yourself, others of you may require support to do it.

At the end of the day, each and every one of you has to be involved in your own healing journey and in your own life journey.

Do not expect others to always be there for you, the most important person to be there for you, is you.

Are you there for you?

Are you there for all those younger aspects of you, that are potentially crying out for your attention?

You are a very special and unique individual and part of the whole, connected to everything and everyone.

But this life is your journey, for you to live, not for others or through others but for yourself.

Get to know yourself, your “weaknesses” your “strengths”, those things you really enjoy, that give you so much pleasure, that give you playtime, fun and laughter.

All of those things are essential to make up a happy you and your happiness comes from inside of you. It is your choice to be happy, it is not for others to make you happy, that is not what life is about.

Bring your happy to yourself, from your inside, from your choice to enjoy life, to enjoy the challenges that it throughs at you and if you do stumble and fall, pick yourself up, or turn over and look at the stars and enjoy them, and look at things from a different perspective.

Trust and believe in yourself, first and foremost

Namaste Sweet Souls

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